Saturday, June 04, 2016
Sunday, May 29, 2016
WHAT IF SHE EARNS MORE MONEY THAN HER MAN? + DISRESPECTING THE BLACK MAN (aka Hiroshima) Part I by Lafayette Trawick
Friday, March 11, 2016
March for Money
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
Sunday, October 20, 2013
Unattached Sisters - If You'd Like to Find Love Post-50 Here are some tips from a man's perspective by Tony King
Sunday, September 15, 2013
Why Love After 50 is Important to Black Men by Tony King
Black men and Black women appear to be the most unattached group in America. According to the 2010 U.S. Census, 41% of African American men have never been married while 43% of African American women have never walked down the aisle or to the judge's chambers for a marriage license.
For younger adults, this has its own set of ramifications, but what about adults pass age 50? Although going solo may have seemed great in your 20s, 30s and 40s - although that's debatable since most people that entered and maintained healthy marriages at those stages of their lives are now typically healthier and wealthier than those who are post-50 and never married. Nonetheless, is staying single the best lifestyle for you when you are in your 50s and beyond?
From my Black male perspective (and from the men I know) it definitely is not! We (Black men) want to be romantically connected with a compatible woman at this stage of our lives because it makes life more enjoyable and rewarding. And, yes, it is about sexual intimacy, but it's also about so much more. It's also about companionship, friendship, and sharing life's journey. And, to share that journey with someone who has experienced life herself.
Although the Hollywood myth-makers would have you believe that most men in their 50s would want 20 or 30-somethings, that's not necessarily true outside the world of the Donald Trumps and other Millionaire-types that like to dangle their young trophy wives for display at the country club. And don't get me wrong, we see our 50-something wives, lady friends, or life partners as trophies too. But, we also want and need them as confidantes and best friends that bring a perspective to life that one can only get by living 50 years or more. Truth is, most mature men prefer to date and marry someone close to their age.
Besides, many black women in their fifties are keeping themselves fit and sexy as they age. Just check out fitness guru, Donna Richardson, who's hot and fabulous at 56 and or broadcast journalist Gayle King who's 58 and still turning heads. Women that are 50 and beyond today look younger and tend to be more fit than the 50-somethings of yester-year. So it's a whole new ballgame for relationships.
If it is, what are we doing to make it happen?
Tony King is an Information Technology Professional. He resides in metro Dallas, Texas.
Wednesday, June 05, 2013
Is There A Father In The House?
When I tell people that my mother and father are married - to each other - and for the past 60 years - I get the following reactions: You're lucky, That's great, For real? I'm jealous.
Check it out.